I just love spending quality time with my sister.xx
Yesterday I had such a lovely, beautiful and amazing day.
I drove to visit a friend who I have known since 2003 (I am sure).
We met in a little coffee shop that is just across the road from a lovely beach. I love the drive to Rockingham it is about 40 minutes from where I live. As I left my home the weather was wintery, raining and grey skies. As I drove down the freeway I was heading towards blue skies and when I arrived at the beach the sun was shining.
I love the beach, there is something about the calmness of the waves, rolling into the shore. I love the sand, the shells and that it means to me life.
I was meeting up with my friend who is also an amazing mentor to go through some goals for the rest of 2015.
We drank coffee I had my usual large skinny flat white extra hot. We tried a chocolate slice, we drank water and we chatted.
I am not sure who was in the coffee shop, it was packed when we arrived but we found a seat. We started working, planning and discussing ideas.
I am sure when people left the coffee shop and when new people came in but we were oblivious to what was going on in the coffee shop.
We were on a mission, we were focused, we were thinking, we were making plans.
We were totally focused on ideas, things to do, how to achieve the goals and what steps I needed to do to achieve the goals.
I don’t know about you but I find it really encouraging to be accountable to someone about achieving my goals.
I think that you need someone who can cheer you on.
I am really excited about what I need to do, there is quite a bit to do and I know that I can achieve it.
I really want to share with you on of the goals that I am working on which we titled
Be a storyteller………………
this one is all about communicating. I love that, communicating through blogging, speaking, singing and writing.
I am so looking forward to realising these goals and that I have the choice and the opportunity to achieve them. I have my faith and I know that I am not doing it alone.
I will share more soon.
I have two weeks of school holidays and I am really looking forward to the break.
One of my favourite things that I love to do is turn my alarm off, I love that feeling of not being woken up and being able to sleep in.
Bliss.
Holidays is also a time to catch up with friends, I have amazing friends and I love that we might not see each other for a while but when we catch up, it’s like it was just last week.
Holidays are also a great time for me to reflect on my goals and dreams and to see how far I have progressed.
It also allows me the time to rearrange things that I am doing and also to say no to some things.
Saying no for me is hard, but I need to bring it back to, am I working towards my goals and dreams.
There are some things that I have not started yet at all and that was boxing. I have been meaning to go back since the beginning of the year.
A few goals that I am going to work on these holidays are-
Next week I am so excited to catch up with an amazing friend and mentor. I have some journaling to do before we catch up and I am excited.
I am excited because she helps me to be accountable, she encourages me, she inspires me, she motivates me and she allows me to be me.
So if you find yourself on holidays be kind to yourself if you need to rest and if you need to sleep.
Look after yourself, take this time to do things that you love.
Maybe there are things that you would like to reflect on.
I am reflecting on……………………….
Will share more soon.
This has been something that has been on my heart for a while now.
I want to make a difference especially in the area of eating disorders.
I want to let women and girls know that they can live a life without the illness.
I am passionate about seeing people recover.
I know that having a lived experience helps when you are talking with someone who is going through an eating disorder. I know for me when I was going through my illness that talking to others encouraged me, inspired me and motivated me to change.
It wasn’t easy but looking at my life now it was so worth it.
I want you to know that –
You are beautifully & wonderfully made and you are created for a purpose.
You have a future and a hope.
Write out the above words and place them on your mirror, so that they remind you that you are so worth it.
I don’t know where you are on your journey.
Maybe you are exploring the idea of letting go of your eating disorder or maybe you are thinking I never want my eating disorder to go.
Maybe you are in recovery and have many questions about what is next.
Start where you are.
Do you have someone that you can talk to, do you have a Psychologist, a doctor, a dietician or another professional who has experience with someone who has had an eating disorder?
In my experience it is so important to have a professional that sees you and see’s your potential.
I am pouring out my heart to you because I believe in you.
Live a full and wonderful life.
Will share more soon.
I have found myself this week struggling and being very overwhelmed. I have been thinking about what I have seen, heard and experienced in the last few weeks.
The last few weeks I have had a change in my routine and had been placed in a very important role.
My heart aches.
Injustice is the word I find myself thinking of.
Injustice
If we watch the news we can find ourselves drawn into the injustice in our city and in the world.
My thought is who is standing in the gap for those that don’t have a voice or who has had their voice taken away.
If I let myself dwell on this it can become overwhelming and it can consume me.
My whole legacy of what I what to do is –
|I want to make a difference |
Who are you standing in the gap for?
What can you do for someone who has nothing?
What can you do for someone who has been treated badly?
Every day we have an opportunity to bless and help someone. It may be a kind word, a smile or contributing to something that they might need.
If we just start where we are at, then I know that we can make a difference.
Remembering though to keep yourself safe.
This week let me ask you who will you stand in the gap for?
I am excited for this week to see what will happen.
I would love to hear what you have done to stand in the gap for someone.
Will share more soon.
For a while now I have wanted to set up a support group for women who are struggling with an eating disorder. I have researched and have heaps of ideas, policies and procedures. This will still happen and I will work at it because I want to do it well.
It has been on my heart to have a night where we can just value women who are struggling with this illness.
They can bring their friends along and family members.
If they are attending on their own then I would have someone meet them and sit with them. I know how important that is.
I want to bless them, I want to encourage them and I want them to know that there is someone who would love just to spend time with them and to hear their story.
So my thought has been to have a night of encouragement of inspiration of moving forward.
But what would that look like?
I want to set the atmosphere for it to be beautiful for every woman that attends they will receive a gift. Something that they could wear like a bracelet that will let them know that there is hope. I know in my journey I would not buy myself anything nice and this is a really important step in recovery.
The night would be a night of creativeness, of music and of a message.
The message would be you are not alone. You valued, worthy and loved.
You have a purpose and a beautiful future.
How and where this event will be held I am not sure yet.
After the event it would be time for coffee and time to meet other women.
I also want to have psychologist and counsellors that specialise in this area to be able to attend.
The night would not be a one of but the start of an amazing journey of celebrating lives. It would also lead into the support group that I so want to start.
I am passionate about seeing everyone walk into their purpose and their dreams.
Is this achievable? Absolutely I have learnt in the last few years that anything is possible if you believe.
If you or anyone would be interested in this event please let me know.
Will share more soon.
I have been a primary school Chaplain for nearly four years now and I love it. I really do.
My days are never the same which I love.
Before I was a Chaplain I worked in child care for 14 years in all different areas. I worked in child care, before & after school, running a crèche and holiday progams. I really enjoyed it and all the children that I cared for. I felt after 14 years that I really needed a change and so I left.
It is scary to leave a job that you have had for a while but I am so amazed at what has happened since I have said yes to Chaplaincy.
My world has become wider and I have met the most amazing people. I have had so many new experiences and opportunities.
I love caring and helping the school communities.
I am invested in the schools that I work at and I want to make a difference.
I have said yes too many things at my schools for example being in a dunking machine at a school fete. Oh my goodness what was I thinking. I thought yes I have climbed the Sydney Harbour Bridge yes I can go in the dunking machine.
I have to admit I was so scared, but I did it and followed through.
I have dressed up as a fairy, as Angelina Ballerina, a cowgirl. I have been a MC for a bush dance fundraiser.
I have been asked to teach line dancing at the school western disco.
I have gone to my work in Pyjamas for a Pyjama fundraiser breakfast.
I have been a frog in a tutu with lines in an assembly.
I have and teach Zumba Kids® after school which I love.
I have handed out tissues and sat and listened to students who have needed someone to just talk too.
I have let students know that they are important.
I have learnt so much from the staff at the schools that I work in. I love how passionate they are about caring for their students.
This week I was able to attend a camp for one of the schools that I work at, this year I stayed overnight and yes I loved it.
Committed to making a difference.
Will share more soon
I am passionate about seeing women walk into their purpose and their destiny. I want to see women dream big, to be passionate about their lives and to know that they have value, worth and that they are loved.
Yes you are.
I am staring a new series on my blog about my journey with an eating disorder.
I am being very vulnerable here aahhh!
If I want to help others then I need to be brave and share my journey.
I really want to focus on recovery and what that looked like for me.
When I was going through my journey I really wanted to meet someone who had recovered.
I really needed to see someone who had recovered and was living a full and abundant life.
So follow me through this journey of faith, of friendships, of mentors, of tears, of the amazing people in my life, through the hard work, through the decisions that I had to make and to where I am now.
I will share more soon.
This is my story
I haven’t blogged for a little while, I have been busy pursuing creative projects which I have enjoyed.
I have been saying yes to opportunities to embrace them.
Last weekend I was invited by some lovely friends to sing at a Mother’s Day high tea which was so lovely.
I love how a community comes together to just let others know that they are valued and that they deserve to have a nice time.
So I had been practising for the last few weeks, I enjoyed singing and sharing my testimony.
Then on the Sunday I spoke at my lovely church my talk was called Arise and Shine Beautiful One.
This is the link for the message that I spoke on-
http://eastgate.org.au/resources
hope you enjoy.
I loved speaking and I am so grateful for the opportunities that I am able to share and to give back.
I want to make a difference has been my statement for the last few years.
Every opportunity that is presented to me I really want to embrace, I want to live my life to the full.
I have also been busy learning dance routines and making a crown for my nieces 10th birthday. Creative projects are all around.
I really love the direction of my life and who would have ever thought 7 years ago that my life would be so full.
I am actually walking into my dreams and desirers.
This is just the beginning and I am really excited to see what the rest of the year will look like.
The scripture that is just encouraging me at the moment-
Matthew21:22 If you believe you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.
What opportunities are being present to you?
What has been on your to do list?
Be encouraged.
Will share more soon.